Curse of the Good Girl!

Curse of the Good Girl!

Momma always told me I was a good girl.  She also taught me that parents need to tell their children who they want them to be.  I was always the adorable little redhead who could go anywhere because of her impeccable behavior.  Momma took pride 

Sisters

Sisters

Here I sit with coffee nearby, a view of the Pacific Ocean crashing onto the sandy beach, and my “Secret Sisters” chattering as they read the newspaper and work on their quilting projects.  This is our 15 year-old tradition of getting away for an extended 

Are You Content?  Check the List…

Are You Content? Check the List…

Content; that’s what I want to become this year.   Check out this list of symptoms of discontent that I have observed pop up in myself over the years, and see if any apply to you.   fear, jealousy, envy, impatience, pride, selfishness, regrets, unhealthy expectations, 

Mary’s “Second Mom”

Mary’s “Second Mom”

Throughout the world, the Christian church has always recognized Mary the mother of Jesus as the most remarkable mother in the Bible.  We have Scripture verses that give us a glimpse of who she was and the role she played in Jesus’ story on Earth, 

Are You Ready for the Holidays?

Are You Ready for the Holidays?

Can you believe that the holidays are upon us?  People tend to ask, “Are you ready for …insert holiday name here…?” My go-to response now is, “Nope!  It’s not that day yet, so I still have time!”  It might seem harsh, but it reminds me 

Lessons from Grapes

Lessons from Grapes

Autumn is a favorite season for many, and I haven’t met anyone who doesn’t enjoy the changing colors of the foliage, especially in a vineyard.   Lake County is one of the most beautiful regions of California—rolling hills surrounding a large and natural lake; fertile valleys 

I Hate Waiting…Unless It’s for Pie!

I Hate Waiting…Unless It’s for Pie!

Waiting doesn’t come easily.  I’d say it’s one of humanity’s greatest weaknesses.  No one has to teach us to be impatient, and we practice it from birth.  Just ask a new mother about how frustrating it is when her newborn child cries (or screams) to 

Every Girl Needs a BFF!

Every Girl Needs a BFF!

Girls, you need a best friend!  (If you don’t believe that, think again!) Allow me to tell you my story… In a tiny, rural town in Northern California lived a little, chubby, redheaded girl.  She lived with her kind, aging parents in the country.  Her 

Small, but Mighty

Small, but Mighty

Becoming a married woman includes for most of us gaining a mother-in-law.  Yep, we do marry our husband’s family when we marry him…  Let me tell you a little about my “Mom.”  (You’ll know I mean my mother-in-law because I’ll always call my own mother, 

I’m a Big Girl Now

I’m a Big Girl Now

I don’t know if you’ve ever had the same thought, but in my mind I never imagined I would be an adult in my relationship with Momma.  It wasn’t that she didn’t respect me or my abilities, but I was always her “baby girl.”  There